MAISON TANTRA
CODE OF ETHICS
Our Ethical Foundation
This Code of Ethics exists to protect the dignity, sovereignty, safety, and spiritual integrity of every human who enters our field. It is not a legal shield, it is a soul-level vow of conduct. By entering a mentorship relationship within our lineage, both mentor and client agree to these principles.
1. SOVEREIGNTY ABOVE ALL
We recognise every human as sovereign.
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We do not claim authority over a client’s truth.
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We do not replace intuition, agency, or discernment.
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We do not position ourselves as the source of healing, awakening, or power.
We guide people back to themselves, never toward us.
2. NO DEPENDENCY, NO DEVOTION TO THE MENTOR
We explicitly reject:
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Emotional dependency
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Spiritual devotion to the mentor
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Saviour - student dynamics
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Guru - follower hierarchy
A healthy mentorship results in greater independence, not attachment.
If dependency emerges, it must be named, addressed, and resolved, not exploited.
3. POWER, CHARISMA & INFLUENCE ARE HELD WITH HUMILITY
Influence is sacred and dangerous, therefore:
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We do not use fear, admiration, erotic charge, or spiritual authority to control.
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We do not manipulate vulnerability for loyalty, money, sex, or validation.
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We do not use “energetic superiority” as an unspoken hierarchy.
Power is held in service of liberation, never self-enhancement.
4. ABSOLUTE CONSENT & BOUNDARIES
All work is grounded in:
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Informed consent
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Emotional transparency
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The client’s right to pause, decline, or withdraw at any time
We do not:
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Pressure emotional disclosure
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Force catharsis
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Override boundaries for “breakthroughs”
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Pathologise resistance
The body’s NO is sacred.
5. SEXUAL & EROTIC ETHICS (ZERO AMBIGUITY)
Within our lineage:
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Sexual relationships between mentor and active client are strictly prohibited.
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Flirtation, erotic teasing, sexualised energy, or covert seduction is not tolerated.
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Erotic transference must be named, not acted upon.
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No intimacy is justified as “tantric,” “energetic,” or “initiatory.”
Sexual power and spiritual power are never merged in this work.
6. TRAUMA-AWARE, NOT TRAUMA-RECKLESS
We acknowledge:
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Not all mentors are trauma therapists.
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Not all emotional depth is trauma.
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Not all trauma is ready to be processed.
We commit to:
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Nervous-system safety
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Pacing over intensity
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Stabilisation before expansion
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Referral when clinical support is needed
We do not romanticise breakdown as awakening.
7. NO MEDICAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL OR FINANCIAL CLAIMS
We do not:
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Diagnose
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Prescribe
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Replace medical or psychological care
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Guarantee healing, success, or enlightenment
We work in the realm of: awareness, embodiment, identity, emotional intelligence, and conscious evolution.
8. CONFIDENTIALITY IS SACRED
Everything shared in the container is:
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Confidential
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Protected
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Never used for status, marketing, or storytelling without explicit consent
We do not turn client vulnerability into content.
9. CONTINUOUS ETHICAL SELF-EXAMINATION
Every mentor commits to:
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Ongoing supervision
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Regular self-reflection
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Ongoing personal healing & integration
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Ethical humility over spiritual status
There is no graduation from integrity.
10. WHEN ETHICS ARE BREACHED
If an ethical breach occurs:
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It must be reported
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It must be addressed
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It must be repaired when possible
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It may result in removal from the lineage
No reputation is more important than safety.
FINAL STATEMENT
We do not claim perfection.
We claim responsibility.
This Code is not enforced by fear. It is sustained by devotion to truth, humility, and human dignity.
