
MAISON TANTRA
MENTOR CODE OF ETHICS
Our Ethical Foundation
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This Code of Ethics exists to protect the dignity, sovereignty, safety, and spiritual integrity of every human who enters our field. It is not a legal shield, it is a soul-level vow of conduct. By entering a mentorship relationship within our lineage, both mentor and client agree to these principles.
1. SOVEREIGNTY ABOVE ALL
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We recognise every human as sovereign.
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We do not claim authority over a client’s truth.
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We do not replace intuition, agency, or discernment.
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We do not position ourselves as the source of healing, awakening, or power.​
We guide people back to themselves, never toward us.
2. NO DEPENDENCY, NO DEVOTION TO THE MENTOR
We explicitly reject:
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Emotional dependency
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Spiritual devotion to the mentor
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Saviour - student dynamics
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Guru - follower hierarchy​
A healthy mentorship results in greater independence, not attachment.
If dependency emerges, it must be named, addressed, and resolved - not exploited.
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3. POWER, CHARISMA & INFLUENCE ARE HELD WITH HUMILITY
Influence is sacred and dangerous, therefore:
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We do not use fear, admiration, erotic charge, or spiritual authority to control.
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We do not manipulate vulnerability for loyalty, money, sex, or validation.
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We do not use “energetic superiority” as an unspoken hierarchy.
Power is held in service of liberation, never self-enhancement.
4. ABSOLUTE CONSENT & BOUNDARIES
All work is grounded in:
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Informed consent
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Emotional transparency
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The client’s right to pause, decline, or withdraw at any time
We do not:
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Pressure emotional disclosure
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Force catharsis
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Override boundaries for “breakthroughs”
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Pathologise resistance
The body’s NO is sacred.
5. SEXUAL & EROTIC ETHICS (ZERO AMBIGUITY)
Within our lineage:
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Sexual relationships between mentor and active client are strictly prohibited.
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Flirtation, erotic teasing, sexualised energy, or covert seduction is not tolerated.
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Erotic transference must be named, not acted upon.
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No intimacy is justified as “tantric,” “energetic,” or “initiatory.”
Sexual power and spiritual power are never merged in this work.
6. TRAUMA-AWARE, NOT TRAUMA-RECKLESS
We acknowledge:
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Not all mentors are trauma therapists.
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Not all emotional depth is trauma.
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Not all trauma is ready to be processed.
We commit to:
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Nervous-system safety
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Pacing over intensity
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Stabilisation before expansion
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Referral when clinical support is needed
We do not romanticise breakdown as awakening.
7. NO MEDICAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL OR FINANCIAL CLAIMS
We do not:
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Diagnose
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Prescribe
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Replace medical or psychological care
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Guarantee healing, success, or enlightenment
We work in the realm of: awareness, embodiment, identity, emotional intelligence, and conscious evolution.
8. CONFIDENTIALITY IS SACRED
Everything shared in the container is:
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Confidential
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Protected
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Never used for status, marketing, or storytelling without explicit consent
We do not turn client vulnerability into content.
9. CONTINUOUS ETHICAL SELF-EXAMINATION
Every mentor commits to:
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Ongoing supervision
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Regular self-reflection
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Ongoing personal healing & integration
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Ethical humility over spiritual status
There is no graduation from integrity.
10. WHEN ETHICS ARE BREACHED
If an ethical breach occurs:
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It must be reported
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It must be addressed
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It must be repaired when possible
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It may result in removal from the lineage
No reputation is more important than safety.
FINAL STATEMENT
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We do not claim perfection.
We claim responsibility.
This Code is not enforced by fear. It is sustained by devotion to truth, humility, and human dignity.